Ta children They must learn to follow them Hygiene rules From small, this is often large challenge to Fathers.
A parent in the US took to Reddit to share his thoughts on the issue and the story he told divider Users who actively participate in its topic education from children.
The father claimed that Seven years old He had a daughter long hairUntil the height of the navel, he advised her to comb them twice a day.
“Every morning is a battle”According to the man who had been reminding his daughter to comb her hair for nearly a year, Otherwise, he cuts her hair.
He claims he did one an agreement With her and her mother, who shared her opinion about the necessity of cutting hair if the child does not learn to take responsibility for his personal hygiene.
When the girl protest Because she did not have the ability to comb the back of her head properly, the father, who had long hair, showed her how to bring these strands before his eyes and do what was necessary. However, the man claims that the child still refuses to be combed based on his original consent.
And after another fight The father took scissors and cut his daughter's hair to shoulder length. As expected, the girl started crying.
“She continued to cry for another hour as I took her to my parents to take care of her while I worked.”Written by a father who was unable to send his daughter to school under these circumstances.
She was the child's great-grandmother and great-aunt hostile towards him and explained to him the extent of his bad behavior towards the child. In fact, he was told to contact a parenting specialist because it had traumatized him.
This was his response «I don't expect him to be self-serving in everything, but he needs to at least try».
But he insists he got to this point because there was no other way Reverse It's very strong.
In fact, children often do not want to comb their hair or brush their teeth, and parents have to be around them all the time to remind them or somehow force them to learn new habits. But there are several ways for this to happen.
This particular father saw fit to honor an agreement he had made with a seven-year-old, whom he had not fully realized How does a minor view such obligations? Maybe the seven-year-old girl didn't want to comb her hair too much because it hurt her, or she actually didn't know how to do it properly and the father decided to cut it himself punishment For her behavior.
from this type Interactions On behalf of the parents, which is done in moments ShippingTheir results are rarely good. Usually a discussion should be held with the child and every aspect of the problem should be addressed. If for example. The girl did not immediately understand how to lift her hair forward and comb it, and the father had to show her again. The solutions to these problems lie together.
There were also some commentators who said that the father did well, in his own way, to prepare his son to live in our world, but this position seems to us exaggerated.
A few days after his original posting, the father wrote on Reddit that he had spoken to the child and asked her to come out SorryPointing out that it was all an experience from which he learned how to set boundaries and not make rash decisions. However, the seven-year-old girl will need her time to process and overcome the event.
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